Relationship and its foundation

 A very rich literature is available on the subject of RELATIONSHIP ; I have also written a few blogs on the subject, however, I wish to write something more in my own way and thinking and in simple words, especially on human relationship.

LOVE is the beginning of relationship and TRUST and RESPECT are the foundation. 

It starts with love of mother for her children and grows further into parental relationship attracting the love of the father for his children. This is the strongest relationship and very natural . 

FOUNDATION of any structure depends upon the strength of its material . In case of human relationship it depends upon Trust and respect and their strength lies in EMOTIONS/sentiments , VALUES; Both of them are situational to the circumstances of individuals , they are quite different from person to person in a specific social/ economic/religious environment of the individuals. Therefore the foundation of relationship is different for the people and the structures of relationship remain strong, fragile or flexible depending the strength of the foundation. remain, stable, or breakdown or remain susceptable for change.

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EMOTION

EMOTION is defined as " Any agitation or disturbance of mind , feeling, passion, any vehement or excited mental state ".
A feeling and its distinctive thoughts, psychological and biological states ,and range of propensities to act.
There are hundreds of emotions, along with their blends, variations, mutations, and nuances. The main candidates and some of the members of their families:
ANGER: fury, outrage, resentment, wrath, exasperation, indignation, vexation, acrimony, animosity, annoyance, irritability, hostility, and, perhaps at the extreme, pathological hatred and violence.
SADNESS: grief, sorrow, cheerlessness, gloom, melancholy, self-pity, loneliness, dejection, despair, and, when pathological, severe depression.
FEAR: anxiety, apprehension, nervousness,concern, consternation, misgiving, wariness, qualm, edginess, dread, fright, terror, as a psychopathology, phobia, and panic.
ENJOYMENT: happiness, joy, relief, contentment, bliss, delight, amusement, pride, sensual, pleasure, thrill, rapture, gratification, satisfaction, euphoria, whimsy, ecstasy, and at the far edge, mania;
LOVE: acceptance, friendliness, trust, kindness, affinity, devotion, adoration, infatuation,, agape;
SURPRISE: shock, astonishment, amazement, wonder;
DISGUST: contempt, disdain, scorn, abhorrence, aversion, distaste, revulsion;
SHAME: guilt, embarrassment, chagrin, remorse, humiliation, regret, mortification, and contrition.
OTHERS: Jealousy ( a blend of anger, sadness, and fear); Virtues: hope and faith, courage and forgiveness, certainty and equanimity; Vices: doubt, complacency, sloth and torpor- or boredom;
four specific facial expressions  (Fear, Anger, Sadness and Enjoyment ) are recognized by people  in cultures around the world.
Outer ripples are Moods which are more muted and last far longer than the emotion. Temperaments evoke a given mood or emotion making people timid or cheery. Disorders of emotion such as clinical depression or unremitting anxiety , someone feels perpetually trapped in a toxic state.
(From Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman; p331-333)