RESPONSIBILITY

Responsibility;  Responsibility and Responsibility: Most important aspect of life ; you have responsibility for the SELF, Family, Community/Society (Social) ,  State (moral and Legal)  and spiritual; you are responsible where ever there is an obligation to fulfil.
Responsibility is defined as "The concept that one is answerable or accountable for something within one's power, control or management."
Traits of responsibility;
the ability to decide and act on your own without supervision,
instill a sense of duty,
social force that binds you to courses of action demanded by force;
trust worthiness,
deserving trust and confidence;
quality of being dependable and reliable;
leadership and importance;
level headedness, stability, maturity, common sense, reliability, rationality, reasonableness, dependability,
trustworthiness, conscientiousness, soberness, sensibleness;
capacity, competency, ability, capabilities, efficiency, loyalty;

If you are responsible, you are responsible in any situation .
People take some and avoid some responsibilities. But the logic is that you should own responsibility according to your ability and recognizable traits ; Accept the responsibility for any situation where ever you are for success and satisfaction for now and greater success and satisfaction later. Avoiding responsibility does not help anyone any where any time; It brings shame and regrets in future; Blaming others ( holding others at fault for causing something )  Justifying the Excuses and Denial ( ignoring the existence of something and facts ) are the expression of self guilt and  backfires some time.
Being or not being responsible is a mental aspect and an attitude. By accepting the responsibility you accept the challenges to attain any height, status, authority and many other attributes of responsibility. That leads you to the path of the progress in any sphere. you develop an attitude of discipline and organization which are necessary to purify and stabilize the mind to gain knowledge for spirituality. If you avoid responsibility , you are not responsible to self, the family, the society, employer, to in fact none. It is not a matter of convenience and comfort that one thinks / consider to do this or that. It is a matter of attitude what one should do what one is supposed to do. according to his/her qualifications and skills and specialization and background.
Being irresponsible brings defamation,, downfall, disappointments , regrets and frustration at a later stage in life. From my own experience while in active service, dealing and working with irresponsible people, I found that these people are not aware that they are irresponsible in spite of telling them repeatedly and illustrating them for their irresponsible acts. They do not accept their faults instead try to justify their actions with excuses; Never try to improve even with punishments, incentives, motivations etc. I worked hard to bring a change in this kind of people but without any results except in one or two cases with great and constant efforts.
Accept the challenges and responsibilities in life and get organized and disciplined to lead a better , meaningful and spiritual  life .

No one thinks about personal responsibility when things go well