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Conjugal Relationship
CONJUGAL RELATIONSHIP is the most intimate relationship among all the relationships.Even the natural relationships like mother, father brother etc. are considered less intimate after the conjugal relationship is established after the marriage. Everyone one is responsible for each other.They love and care for each other, share each and everything of the world throughout their relationship. Out of natural relationships, this is the most stable and established relationship.Strange enough that two strangers meet at a certain point in life , mostly after the age of 20 or so, and become so much for each other.This relationship is designed by GOD in a very special way with very important consideration to keep HIS creation alive and continuing for ever.HE has created some in-built strong forces which bring the two persons so near to each other by generating automatic love , affection and care ( known as made for each other ). Procreation is the main consideration of GOD. Giving birth to a child and bringing him up is the most satisfying thing for a mother.This is all natural and more than natural relationships ( Any way , Natural relationships are breaking away because of the new life styles and distances of all kinds... ).
In most cases, the girl goes to live with her partner and his family.The girl before marriage lives with her parents and their family. They are influenced by the home and local environment for their habits, behaviors ,language , eating choices etc.( or to say that they are conditioned to certain life style according to their most immediate environment );Finally, they have to leave parent's house and have to adapt and adjust with the new environment. In fact, they are supposed not only to compromise or adjust with the new family but totally surrender if they wish to live happily. Now they belong to them after their parents have taken KANYA DAAN and given her to her in-laws. It is a fact and reality.She and her everything belong to them.It is like a river begins from the mountains, runs through the various topographies of the plane and finally merges to the ocean. At this points, it does not have anything of its own- the taste, depth,width, colour and current or direction of its water etc. It completely looses its identity.
CONJUGAL RELATIONSHIP is the most intimate relationship among all the relationships.Even the natural relationships like mother, father brother etc. are considered less intimate after the conjugal relationship is established after the marriage. Everyone one is responsible for each other.They love and care for each other, share each and everything of the world throughout their relationship. Out of natural relationships, this is the most stable and established relationship.Strange enough that two strangers meet at a certain point in life , mostly after the age of 20 or so, and become so much for each other.This relationship is designed by GOD in a very special way with very important consideration to keep HIS creation alive and continuing for ever.HE has created some in-built strong forces which bring the two persons so near to each other by generating automatic love , affection and care ( known as made for each other ). Procreation is the main consideration of GOD. Giving birth to a child and bringing him up is the most satisfying thing for a mother.This is all natural and more than natural relationships ( Any way , Natural relationships are breaking away because of the new life styles and distances of all kinds... ).
In most cases, the girl goes to live with her partner and his family.The girl before marriage lives with her parents and their family. They are influenced by the home and local environment for their habits, behaviors ,language , eating choices etc.( or to say that they are conditioned to certain life style according to their most immediate environment );Finally, they have to leave parent's house and have to adapt and adjust with the new environment. In fact, they are supposed not only to compromise or adjust with the new family but totally surrender if they wish to live happily. Now they belong to them after their parents have taken KANYA DAAN and given her to her in-laws. It is a fact and reality.She and her everything belong to them.It is like a river begins from the mountains, runs through the various topographies of the plane and finally merges to the ocean. At this points, it does not have anything of its own- the taste, depth,width, colour and current or direction of its water etc. It completely looses its identity.
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